AN INDIAN TRUE LOVE STORY

Hello friends! Are you bore about my blog? Don’t be upset. Today I tell you about a love story that I found from my most favourite Indian movie “KAL HO NA HO”. Lets start..........

Naina Catherine Kapur (Preity Zinta) is an angry young woman, for more than one reason. Her father committed suicide when she needed him the most, leaving his wife Jennifer (Jaya Bachchan) to raise their children all alone. The restaurant Jennifer operates is faltering. Furthermore, Naina's paternal grandmother, Lajjo (Sushma Seth), blames Jennifer for the suicide and refuses to accept Gia, a six-year-old girl whom Jennifer adopted, as her granddaughter, blaming her for bringing bad luck to the family. Naina has to put up with the daily fights that take place in the house as a result. The only factors that redeem her life are the toiling and tolerant Jennifer and Naina's bumbling MBA classmate Rohit (Saif Ali Khan). Preity Zinta, Shahrukh Khan and Jaya Bachchan (l-r) as featured in the film. Aman Mathur (Shahrukh Khan) arrives in Naina's neighbourhood and soon changes everything. Noticing the sadness of his new neighbours, he intervenes. His well-meaning interference in their activities, his revival of their financial condition, and his general optimism soon change their lives for the better. Although Naina is initially reluctant to enjoy Aman's presence as others do and is irritated by his extroverted, overly-enthusiastic attitude, she grows to like him and eventually to love him. Meanwhile, her friend Rohit has fallen in love with her. On Aman's encouragement, he calls Naina for lunch but before he can propose to her, she reveals her love for Aman. Rohit informs Aman about this and leaves shortly for his parents' home. Naina goes to Aman's house where, to stop her from confessing her feelings to him, Aman tells her that he is married to a woman named Priya (Sonali Bendre) who actually is his doctor. Aman, it is revealed, is dying of a severe condition that is progressively weakening his heart. Knowing that his lifespan is limited, he goes through life facilitating friendships and courtship, and urging people to enjoy them in the present moment since "tomorrow might never come". His excursions into such altruism eventually lead him to sacrifice his love for Naina and instead playing matchmaker between her and Rohit. After a few weeks of courtship, Naina starts to like Rohit as more than just a friend and accepts his proposal of marriage. Saif Ali Khan and Preity Zinta The tension within Naina's family also stops when Aman, after intercepting a personal letter addressed to Jennifer, reveals that Gia is Naina's half-sister through their father's extramarital affair. Lajjo finally accepts Gia, and the now-united family wholeheartedly prepare for Rohit and Naina's wedding. As the film progresses, Aman's health deteriorates. One episode of intense excitement nearly kills him. Naina, in a chance encounter, meets Priya, Aman's supposed wife who is actually his doctor. She then realises that Aman had lied about his being married to hide his true condition, and possibly, the fact that he may love her in return. She goes to see Aman, and although he defiantly refuses to admit his true feelings, she finally understands that he loves her as well. Aman convinces her to get married to Rohit anyway, because he will not be alive for much longer. Shortly after Rohit and Naina marry, Aman eventually dies of his weakness, with Rohit and Naina by his side.

LOVE IN LITERATURE

In the following excerpt, from William Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, Romeo, in saying "all combined, save what thou must combine By holy marriage" implies that it is not marriage with Juliet that he seeks but simply to be joined with her romantically. "I pray That thou consent to marry us" implies that the marriage means the removal of the social obstacle between the two opposing families, not that marriage is sought by Romeo with Juliet for any other particular reason, as adding to their love or giving it any more meaning. "Then plainly know my heart's dear love is set On the fair daughter of rich Capulet: As mine on hers, so hers is set on mine; And all combined, save what thou must combine By holy marriage: when and where and how We met, we woo'd and made exchange of vow, I'll tell thee as we pass; but this I pray, That thou consent to marry us to-day." --Romeo and Juliet, Act II, Scene II Shakespeare and Søren Kierkegaard share a similar viewpoint that marriage and romance are not harmoniously in tune with each other. In Shakespeare's Measure for Measure, for example, "...there has not been, nor is there at this point, any display of affection between Isabella and the Duke, if by affection we mean something concerned with sexual attraction. The two at the end of the play love each other as they love virtue." Isabella needs love, and she may reject marriage with the Duke because he seeks to beget an heir with her for her virtues, and she is not happy with the limited kind of love that implies. Shakespeare argues that marriage, because of its purity, simply cannot incorporate romance. The extramarital nature of romance is also clarified by John Updike in his novel Gertrude and Claudius, as well as by Hamlet. This same supposition of romance is also found in the film Braveheart or rather apparent in the example of Isabella of France's life. Romance raises questions of emotivism (or in a more pejorative sense, nihilism) such as whether spiritual attraction, of the world, might not actually rise above or distinguish itself from that of the body or aesthetic sensibility. While Buddha taught a philosophy of compassion and love, still in his philosophy of anatman or non-self spiritual appearances are of a piece with the world and essentially empty. The contradiction between compassion and anatman seems to be a part of Buddhism. In that case a seemingly negative insight can result in very different overall views, for example if one compares Buddha and Shakespeare with Friedrich Nietzsche.

LOVE AND ROMANCE

Romance is a general term that refers to the attempt to express love with words or deeds. It also refers to feelings of excitement associated with love. In the context of romantic love relationships, romance usually implies an expression of one's love, or one's deep emotional desires to connect with another person. This is especially apparent in platonic love where sexual drive is sublimated into an artful expression of desire. The debate over an exact definition of love may be found in literature as well as in the works of psychologists, philosophers, biochemists and other professionals and specialists. Romantic love is a relative term, but generally accepted as a definition that distinguishes moments and situations within interpersonal relationships to an individual as contributing to a significant relationship connection. During the initial stages of a romantic relationship, there is more often more emphasis on emotions - especially those of love, intimacy, compassion, appreciation, and affinity - rather than physical intimacy. Within an established relationship, romantic love can be defined as a freeing or optimizing of intimacy in a particularly luxurious manner (or the opposite as in the "natural"), or perhaps in greater spirituality, irony, or peril to the relationship. It may seem like a contradiction that romance is opposed to spirituality and yet would be strengthened by it, but the fleeting quality of romance might stand out in greater clarity as a couple explore a higher meaning. In culture, arranged marriages and betrothals are customs that may conflict with romance due to the nature of the arrangement. It is possible; however, that romance and love can exist between the partners in an arranged marriage.

Defination

The English word "love" can have a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts. Often, other languages use multiple words to express some of the different concepts that English relies mainly on "love" to encapsulate; one example is the plurality of Greek words for "love." Cultural differences in conceptualizing love thus make it doubly difficult to establish any universal definition. Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn’t love. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy; as a less sexual and more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, although other definitions of the word love may be applied to close friendships in certain contexts. When discussed in the abstract, love usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience felt by a person for another person. Loves often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing, including oneself (cf. narcissism. In addition to cross-cultural differences in understanding love, ideas about love have also changed greatly over time. Some historians date modern conceptions of romantic love to courtly Europe during or after the middle Ages, although the prior existence of romantic attachments is attested by ancient love poetry Because of the complex and abstract nature of love, discourse on love is commonly reduced to a thought-terminating cliché, and there are a number of common proverbs regarding love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all" to the Beatle' "All you need is love." Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of "absolute value," as opposed to relative value. Philosopher Gottfried Leibniz said that love is "to be delighted by the happiness of another."

Valentine day

Valentine's Day or Saint Valentine's Day is a holiday celebrated on February 14 by many people throughout the world. In the English-speaking countries, it is the traditional day on which lovers express their love for each other by sending Valentine's cards, presenting flowers, or offering confectionery. The holiday is named after two among the numerous Early Christian martyrs named Valentine. The day became associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer in the High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished. The day is most closely associated with the mutual exchange of love notes in the form of "valentines". Modern Valentine symbols include the heart-shaped outline, doves, and the figure of the winged Cupid. Since the 19th century, handwritten notes have largely given way to mass-produced greeting cards. The sending of Valentines was a fashion in nineteenth-century Great Britain, and, in 1847, Esther Howland developed a successful business in her Worcester, Massachusetts home with hand-made Valentine cards based on British models. The popularity of Valentine cards in 19th century America, where many Valentine cards are now general greeting cards rather than declarations of love, was a harbinger of the future commercialization of holidays in the United States. It's considered one of the Hallmark holidays. The U.S. Greeting Card Association estimates that approximately one billion valentines are sent each year worldwide, making the day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year, behind Christmas. The association estimates that, in the US, men spend on average twice as much money as women.

Love letter

Dear Jaan,

Each night before I sleep your sweet voice echoes through my mind. As I rest my head on my pillow a smile seeps through my soul, knowing that you, and you alone have made me whole.

Without you I would simply be surviving, but with you I am living life to the fullest. Because of your love my spirit has been rejuvenated.

The simplest pleasures in life bring me so much joy that it is hard to find the words to describe them. A walk in the park becomes a reality based metaphor... it is our journey together hand in hand forever more.

Even in our moods, regardless of the irritations of daily life we manage to make each other laugh. The sound of your laughter rings through my ears and touches my heart. Our banter that may seem odd to others makes us giggle to no end. The difference between you and I are very few, yet they are there. But we accept those differences, embracing them because they are part of something we love about one another.

It isn't about looks, nor money but the simplicity in life that we find so attractive. Knowing we could survive anywhere as long as we were together.

Love is not a job, love simply is. Unconditional love is what I offer you, and with you I receive the same. You are my heart of hearts, my soul mate, friend, lover and partner for life.

I will love you forever and a day. Thank you for being there, loving me and knowing what my true heart wants.

Love always,

Nayon.

A true love story

When I was 14 years old, I met my bloke that I am now with. I randomly met him whilst i was sat on a bench outside a church with my friend, he walked by and my mate said one of those line 'my mates thinks your fit'. we then got talking. from then for roughly a month we spent a hell of a lot of time together, id go round where he was living in a hostel, we'd smoke a bit of weed n just chill out.
there was one slight problem i told him i was 17 years old (he was 21 then). at the time i wasn't getting on particularly well with my mum, i was always running away n she'd ring the police declaring me as a missing person. it wasn't 2 long and id stayed at charlies one night. the next day the police knocked on the door, i hid under the bed, the police found me and told him my real age.
he soon after moved to Chippendale which was about 10 miles from where i was living. i seen him a couple of times but the police also came for me at his flat over there.
my mum thought it was best that i went and lived with my dad in derby, so i went there for a week n ran back to be with charlie. my dad came back to get me n take me back up north but a week after i ran back again.
to my upset, charlie had got fed up of all the trouble with the police and he didnt want to get in2 trouble for sleeping with a minor.
i was devastated i really loved him and i thought he loved me but dont think he did really back then. constantly id listen to our song, MAROON 5 - SHE WILL BE LOVED, and cried non stop. the last time i called him, he was swimming and then a girl came on the phone, i knew then it was over.
i never forgot him but i moved on.
i then went on to meet Chris who i was with 2 n half years (i then realised what real love was lol).
whilst i was with him, i went to Chippendale with a friend n decided to knock on his door, but he'd moved out.
anyways when me and chris split up i was on the social network called bebo when i randomly searched his name on there. there was loadsa people under his name with no pictures so i randomly added the one on the top of the list. i didnt hear nothing back n he never confirmed my friendship so i assumed it wasnt him.
roughly about 5 months later he added me n started asking question, it turnt out it was him, i was sooo excited, i just could not believe it. i thought id neva see him or talk to him again. he phoned me straight away i started actually believin it was him after hearing his cockney accent.we constantly texted each other. we arranged to meet up roughly week after but when the Saturday came he never texted or anythin so nor did i, i was gonna show him i wasn't like what i used to be n i certainly werent a mug that let blokes stitch me up. so i started not to text him that much so we literally just spoke on the internet, same ol same ol - how u doin darlin blah blah lol. he obviously apologised for stitching me up n explained he'd only just split up with sum1 who he was also with for 2 n half years who he wasn't over.
anyways a couple of years passed n finally we decided to meet, it was his birthday on the 24th september this year and i went down to London for the weekend after as he was having a barbecue at his mums house as he was back living with her in London.
i was so nervous, id never felt the way i did when i was traveling down from derby to london. i was excited but absolutely shittin myself to be quite honest.
i went down on the friday n was sposed to been coming back on the Sunday but we had such a nice time i stayed down til the Wednesday. it was lovely we talked about what we'd been doin in all the years we'd lost contact, we'd both bin thru a hell of a lot since then, we laughed, we giggled n we slept together loads of times. it was so nice, it wasnt the norm we was actually making love. i met all of his family n friends. unfortunately i had to leave and come back to derby, we both weren't happy with being in a long distance relationship as we didn't fink it would work. i was prepared to move to london and give up everything in derby so charlie decided to move up ere. at 1st i wasnt 100% sure if he actually would move up.
but 2 weeks after i left London he got the coach up here with all his stuff and moved into the place i was living (in a shared house) it was very strange for me goin from being on my own for roughly 2 years to straight into a relationship livin with someone n always being with them. i just really hope it all works

Disadvantage of love

There are lots of disadvantage of love. I describe it one by one. The main disadvantage of love is it destroys the life of the young guys. Sometimes young guys are refused by their lovers. It makes them very frustrated. Sometimes they do suicide or destroy their life by taking drugs and doing many unethical works. Sometimes young guys pass a lot of time with their lovers by gossiping in phone and dating. It hampers their studies and destroys their career. Sometimes young guys make gap with their family, friends and relatives for giving lots of time to their lovers. It makes misunderstanding with their family, friends and relatives. Sometimes young guys make misunderstanding with their lovers. It also makes them frustrated. This frustration hampers their lives. Sometimes young guys make sexual relation with their lovers. It is very unethical job. If the guys do not love purely, it makes lots of problem. Sometimes young guys make affair with several boys or girls at a time. It makes lots of problem. Sometimes two different boys or girls love one boy or girl. It makes clash between them.

Advantage of love

There are lots of advantages of love. I love someone. So, I have practical experience. Today I write about it. Love gives a man pure mental satisfaction. This satisfaction don’t found without having love. But it must be ensure that the mentality of the guys should be pure. Love motivates lovers to live perfectly. It also motivates lovers to build a good career as soon as possible. Love makes the young generation pure. Sometimes young generation involves in a lots of unethical activities. For example- taking drugs, making sexual relation, passing lots of time in gossiping with the opposite gender through mobile phone, involving in physical violence and others. If someone loves purely, he or she can not do such kinds of activities. Because love controls lovers. Love makes someone smart. A lover wants to represents him or her smartly to lover. So, he or she makes them smart.

Introduction

Love is the best gift for a man. Almighty Allah gifts it for our total mental satisfaction. At first we have to know what love is. I think that love is a feeling. Sometimes a boy or a girl feels that they love someone. It means that they want to talk or they want to pass time or they want to see someone. In short they miss someone. It is love. Everyone has some power that can attract others. In generally a man falls in love when he can feel the power of someone.